Louie S4E02 “so did the fat lady” finally put into words what I’ve been trying to say.
People who are truly confident in themselves would flirt with anyone.
People who could use a little help with confidence would see it as assurance when people with high status “view them worthy of their time.”
People with low confidence – people who truly need help – see an arm candy to be a necessity in their life and “how their date boost their social status” factors heavily in their mate selection.
And this is why I love having been born average looking. I have an automatic filter for people with unmanaged confidence issues.